Chavah came into my life as a customer of Hip Stitch. She continues to be that, but to my great joy, has become a cherished friend. Thanks to the Hip Stitch Zoom group that I started during the pandemic, we now see each other weekly online (a bit more sporadic as camping and other travels take us away). She loaned me the book Man's Search for Meaning by Victor Frankl which was life changing, we've spent time together with our spouses, she's been a friend to share creative struggles and personal struggles, we've camped together, and a few weeks ago, I spent a lovely, peaceful morning with her and her husband Ralph having coffee and touring their garden:
And WHAT a garden - it's truly a retreat from the world to be there.
A text came from Chavah, asking if I was at the store - Ralph and she wanted to come by to show me a quilt he received. I met them that day, and was honored to have them share the story of this quilt:
It came in the mail from his cousin - Chavah knew it was coming but kept it a complete surprise to him. It's a quilt, all hand sewn, made by his mother, who passed away when he was 19. As he told me, he has nothing of hers but photographs, and to receive this - a surprise to boot - was emotional.
A few of us were in the office at the store, and we all knew we were witness to something very special and reverent. Ralph doesn't remember her being a quilter, but this must have taken a very very long time to hand stitch, and the story of how it came to be will probably never be told or known (did she work on it in the cold Chicago winters while he was growing up?), but he now has something that's priceless - this quilt, this part of his mother, Alice.
And I wonder.....did Alice make any more quilts? Did she make this with a purpose, a recipient? Did she learn from her mother? Did she want to quilt more but raising a family took her time?
I love to see and meet the many sewists, quilters, makers who visit Hip Stitch. They all have different paths in life - in today's world, we don't sew for necessity so much anymore. We sew because we love, NEED to create, because we are generous with our time and talent.
I am honored every time someone shares their story with me.
